March 19th. The feast day of St. Joseph.
Joseph, husband to Mary.
Joseph, father to Jesus.
Joseph, chosen above all other men to care for our Savior.
The angel came to him three times in dreams. I won’t focus on the significance of the number three – most people are aware about the symbolism of the number that runs rampant throughout the Bible.
Joseph was a simple man. A carpenter. Do you know of any carpenters in your life today? Or how about just men? Imagine, they were told that they were going to raise a baby that was created by him – or by any other man – but by the Holy Spirit. I don’t know how receptive I would be to the news that my soon to be wife is pregnant with a child that isn’t mine – how much more mind boggling do you think it was when the angel came to visit Joseph in a dream to tell him that the child in Mary’s womb is of divine nature!
Mind. Boggling.
I do have to say that I love the way that even in this one bible story, it’s clear that men and women need to be treated and dealt with differently. The angel Gabriel came to visit Mary while she was awake - just doing her chores. Not Joseph though. Are men a bit more stubborn to get the message across to? Is that why the angel appeared to him in a dream instead of during awake hours?
Makes you wonder!
I commend Joseph, and while I’m not a male, I want to be more like him. He is a model father, but he’s also a man of obedience (much like Mary). He could’ve easily have run away – played Mary as an adulteress – but he didn’t. He instead, took Jesus in his arms as his own child and helped to shape Him into the man that He is (though I’m also certain that God had a big part in that!).
During my bible study with the teens (which is done next week – crazy!), the presenter, Mark Hart, was talking about Joseph. So often we look back at the nativity story, and just prior, as Joseph’s “big moment”. Not much more is said about Joseph after Jesus’ birth – sure there are a few mentions, such as when they were searching for Him before finding Him in the temple – but in the grand scheme of the Bible, Joseph isn’t mentioned all that much. Let’s think about him though. I mean, he was asked to spend his life with Mary, his sinless wife, and Jesus, God himself. Can you imagine sitting around the dinner table with both Jesus and Mary, while it’s your turn to say the blessing? Talk about pressure!
Today, on this feast of St. Joseph, may we all strive to be open to what God is asking of us. May we be obedient to the voice of God and may we pray that the young men of this world will seek him as a role model of obedience and love.